my painful experience...

hahaha... promised sc and hm to share mi painful experience of delivering mi son??

anyway, hm veri cute...wen i told her that i have delivered...she asked...is it painful?? she very scared now...hahaha...same feelin as mi wen i m 6 mths into mi pregnancy...anyway, it will be a lie if not painful lah...somemore i have contractions for 31 hrs b4 mi son decided to come out... wau lau...felt like bitin someone liao...hahaha...but then come to tink of it, i still can bear the pain towards the end although to others, it maybe like hell...mayb i m in pain for too long...so i bcum numb....

anyway, wen u start to have backaches or menses cramp (10 times more painful), prepared liao...these are signs that u mayb delivering soon...then sometimes (can be a few days or a wk later) later, if u kena blood or contractions (interval of 7-10 mins initially), mentally prepared for the happy moment (more pain followed by ur baby lah...haha)....usually, gynae will advise u to remain at home first until the contractions come with interval of 5 mins or less or yang shui bag bursts, then u MUST ask ur husband to bring u to hospital liao wor...thereafter, u can start to yell lah...coz pain will be more severe...heehee...

i can hear screamin from others while in delivery suite lor...hahaha...but ignore it if not it wil make u scared and nervous instead...ask for 'laughin gas' and mild pain killer (which will be jabbed at ur leg)...the mild pain killer will make u feel high and drowsy..allowin u to nap for a few hrs...try not to take ampidural...coz u wont feel much pain and will have prob pushin the baby out...so if u wan to end the process fast...try to bear with it... heehee... :)

oh ya...if u have attended those classes tat teach u how to breathe durin delivery, i can tell u is useless...haha...coz u are in great pain tat u juz know how to push and wont apply the techniques at all...the nurses will teach u how to push and u juz follow them can liao...

if u wanna ask w/r u can feel the pain of gynae cuttin ur cervic to allow the bb to come out and sewin it up aft tat, i can tell u is no...u can only feel pain like ant bite wen gynae is stitchin the openin...but after tat...the pain of wound can be unbearable...so eat the painkiller and ask ur husband to stand by those round swimmin float or cushion seat for those who have piles...coz u cannot sit properly at all for the nxt 1 wk plus...

the remainin process, u can ask ur husband to describe to u liao...coz they will be there to see from the pt baby head appears to the part baby is out to cuttin of the cord to seein baby cries (coz gynae beats the bb) to weighin the bb...then u can really heave a sign of relief...heehee...

anyway, keep ur wound clean by washin it everytime u go toilet...then apply the medicine tat the gynae gives u...it is common for us (1st time delivery) not bein able to urine or pass motion...coz we use too force and sort of hurt the sys...if cannot urine, u will haf to rely on urine bag for a day or so dependin on ur speed of recovery...as for pass motion, they will gif u medicine to go toilet...but do not force it if cannot pass motion coz it will hurt ur wound...then u will kena UTI durin this one mth coz lack of water (we can onli drink tea durin confinement)...

wow, realised mi post is long sia...haha...anytime more juz ask and i shall try to answer u..